Dolores Brist Besley

After a rich, blessed life, with family members at her side, Dolores Besley, died peacefully on September 17, 2018 at age 87. Born on December 12, 1930 in McKendree, Maryland, Dolores was the only child of the late George L. and Gladys C. Brist. Dolores grew up in Washington, DC, later moving to University Park, Maryland, an idyllic town near the University of Maryland in College Park. Although she was only 15, as soon as she met the boy across the street (Bob Besley), she knew she had found the love of her life. They became sweethearts and while Bob served the country during World War II, she finished high school. Dolores then joined Bob at the University of Maryland, studied elementary education and became a member of Kappa Delta Sorority. On August 26, 1950, Dolores happily became Mrs. Besley. She was a dedicated wife and a source of unfailing support when Bob became an FBI Agent and was assigned to several locations requiring moves. In 1962, an FBI transfer allowed Dolores and Bob to return to University Park, Maryland and settle into a house on the street where they had met. Dolores loved having the opportunity to raise her four children for the next ten years across the street from her parents and with other relatives close by. Shortly after another FBI transfer in 1973 to Columbia, South Carolina, Dolores got involved with local tennis and became a valuable part of several tennis leagues. She was passionate about tennis and a fierce competitor. In 1974, Dolores opened a tennis store near Trenholm Plaza named Lob N’ Volley and enjoyed the retail side of the sport she loved. For the next 35 years, Dolores played competition-level tennis in Columbia and was known for her wicked left-handed swing, often playing number 1 on teams against opponents 30-40 years younger. At the age of 75, Dolores represented South Carolina at the Southeastern United States Senior Tournament as a singles player. Dolores eventually switched from tennis to competitive putt-putt at Wildewood Downs Retirement Community. She also served as President of the Independent Living Council at Wildewood Downs and was a member of Spring Valley Presbyterian Church. Dolores was extremely creative and loved the challenge of all craft and home-decorating projects. Creating things and redecorating were life-long hobbies and she was always working on something. There was nothing she couldn’t do. Her sewing skills and needlework were flawless. She could paint rooms, wallpaper, hang light fixtures and do light carpentry, among other things. She especially loved to make things for people, and everyone she cared for has many treasured items she made especially for them. Dolores truly excelled at being a mother and a grandmother. Her life’s work was focused on creating a positive home life and nurturing environment for her family. She instinctively knew what each of her children, and eventually her grandchildren, needed. She was supportive and giving, encouraging each family member’s talents, interests and accomplishments. She was so proud of the family she helped create. Those left to share and cherish Dolores’ love and legacy are her daughters Barbara Bracey (Dennis) and Joan Revson (Frank), sons Robert “Bob” Besley, Jr. (Sandy) and William “Bill” Besley (Sharon); seven grandchildren and three great-grandchildren. In addition to her parents, Dolores is preceded in death by her childhood sweetheart and husband of 66 years, Robert “Bob” Kirkland Besley. A funeral service celebrating Dolores’ life will be held at 11 o’clock, Friday, September 21, 2018 at Shives Funeral Home, Trenholm Road Chapel, 7600 Trenholm Road Ext, Columbia. The family will receive friends prior to the service beginning at 10 o’clock. A private family burial will be held at Fort Jackson National Cemetery. The Besley family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to the direct care and supervisory staffs of Wildewood Downs Long Term Care for their attentiveness and compassion during the three years Dolores was a resident. The Besleys are also appreciative of the kindness and support of The Lighthouse Hospice Group during Dolores’ final months of life. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate donations made in Dolores Besley’s memory to Spring Valley Presbyterian Church, 120 Sparkleberry Lane Columbia, SC 29223; Lighthouse Hospice, 110 Oak Park Drive Unit C, Irmo, South Carolina 29063; or the charity of your choice.

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Dolores Brist Besley

December 12, 1930 - September 17, 2018